I read a blog today that really hit home. I wish that I would have had all the resources that are available today twenty years ago as I was just starting a family and my grown kids were small! I can't remember how many times people have supposed that I stayed home with my children because I didn't have any skills. I could never understand why they didn't know that I chose to stay home because my kids need me and it is fun. I could have done anything I wanted to do and I CHOSE to be a mom. It would have been nice to know that there was someone then that felt the same way I did. So here is the quote from the blog Latter-day homeschooling written by Courtney:
"I grew up hearing about how "women can have it all" only to hear as an
adult, that those who tried, found it was impossible. I guess now the
new saying is that you can have it all, you just can't
have it all at the same time. I must strongly disagree. Women can have
it all, and at the same time. I certainly do. But it is because
I am a mother, not in spite of it.
Every time I read a book to my children, I am an actress. Every
time I sing them to sleep, I'm a singer. When I blast music while we
clean the house, we are all dancers! I'm an artist every time I get out
the paints or crayons. I'm the world's greatest doctor, who can heal
anything with a kiss and a hug. I'm a therapist when they come to me
in tears. I'm an accountant every time I balance the checkbook. I'm a
chef when I'm in the kitchen. I'm a maid, manager, technician and
computer geek. Electrician, nutritionist, horticulturist, photographer,
movie screener and critic. I'm a builder, economist, a politician, a
professional complement giver, the "it's not fair" police and a drill
sergeant.
Within my little family I have fulfilled every dream I
have ever had and more! And since I have added homeschooling to my
list, I'm finding a whole new set of dreams that I am so excited to
follow with my kids. I get to be a scientist, a mathematician,
theologian, botanist, zoologist, literacy specialist and historian. I
get to read great literature with them and be a scholar. With the help
of this blog, I'm now a writer. I can do anything my heart desires because I am a mother!"
I hope I can always remember this and realize all the opportunities I have and not dwell on the things I can't or haven't done! Being a mom is really the best and I wouldn't trade my life for any other life. I am the most blessed person that I know. I'm thankful for all of my blessings and my best blessing is my family and every person in it that I get to serve and help and love!